Aug 27, 2020
Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep
questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life.
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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of
thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success,
and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His
presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave
clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to
their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of
over a decade of coaching, therapy, and education of thousands of
students around the world. Join him on the “DTPHD Podcast” as he
explores deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the
good life. Subscribe now.
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About Stefan Ravalli:
Forever studying masterful humans and the art of service the world
over to bring their practices to our (sometimes
“service-deficient”) culture, Stefan Ravalli combines all that with
his expertise in meditation, mindfulness, and
communication/listening to raise the game of service professionals
- and anyone looking to upgrade how they connect with others (and
themselves). Learning meditation was a game-changer for Stefan. It
gave him the inner strength to be his unique self (without the
negative self-talk!), connect with others better, and live a
healthy happy life. Meditation also makes you realize your
potential and gives you the fearlessness to pursue bigger and
better things you never thought possible, so Stefan left a
leadership role at a high-profile bar/restaurant to India to teach
meditation. After doing that for years and deepening his tea
ceremony practice, Stefan realized that the art of service was the
richest path of self-cultivation available to him. Serving anything
anywhere was the best way to apply and accelerate all the upgrades
he got from meditation. So he started Serve Conscious to bring
these tools and practices to anyone where service is part of their
life - to awaken us to the power of service as a means of growth
and self-mastery.
Learn more about Stefan Ravalli here:
http://serveconscious.com
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Shownotes:
1:02 What’s the default state of achievers, and why does
it matter?
4:45 Two metaphors for how best to view the worth of a human
being
8:36 How achievers become worthy of love and connection
10:35 How meditation helps you find your own value
16:44 How growing and striving relate to meeting your need
for significance
20:55 When the pursuit of significance becomes unhealthy
25:01 One of the big downsides from being in the Flow
state
27:26 Why people put off their happiness
30:44 How to find fulfillment in the present
36:11 Why achievers don't believe they're enough
40:33 This is what achievers fear when they reach their
goals
45:56 What happens when you let go of striving for
significance
49:02 The advantage of finding fulfillment in the present