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Okay, welcome back. We’re continuing, well, finishing off the
section on narcissism, narcissistic co-dependents and how
co-dependents are basically narcissists and so on. And so far, this
whole time, we’ve still just been focusing on the problem,
understanding the problem. I haven’t yet started talking about the
solution very much. I did mention self-awareness and
self-acceptance, but we’re just getting clear on the problem. Once
you get clear on the problem, the solution is a lot more
straightforward, though obviously there’s a lot more to say about
that as well. And we’ve been focusing largely on the fixer, on the
compensator, the white knight, the person who took the moving
towards coping strategy to get love and affection.
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So, now, we’re going to look at that dynamic between the fixer
and the predator. In other words, what the aspiring pick-up artist
and the hot girl who would be naturally attracted to him in that
state, being the narcissist that he is. Who would he attract? Would
an emotionally secure person be sexually attracted to somebody like
that, an aspiring pick-up artist who has spent a lot of time, not
just the guy — like, again, there’s that first option, the guy who
gets it very easily and doesn’t need to spend more than a couple of
weeks learning some of these systems and things, methods, and then
just applying them. But I mean the vast majority of men, who, if
they weren’t good with women naturally, they had to learn it. That
process of learning it was more arduous.
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