Aug 12, 2020
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What An Unconditional Love Relationship Is Like Between Two True
Selves Shownotes
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1:02 David Tian Ph.D. explains how our various parts work in a
relationship
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9:28 What are exiled parts of ourselves?
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15:52 This happens when you are the primary source of love for
your parts
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17:59 The three ways your most vulnerable parts were exiled
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24:03 What qualities do we lose when parts of us are exiled?
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26:00 This is how exiles feel in an intimate relationship
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32:48 What extreme belief do our parts have about intimate
relationships?
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41:15 How attachment re-injuries impact our intimate
relationships
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46:55 How your partner can become your "tor-mentor"
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50:49 The problem with our exiled parts
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53:30 The solution to the problem with our exiled parts
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56:08 Two major types of love
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1:00:53 Common manifestations of protective parts in intimate
relationships
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1:03:22 Relationship troubleshooting issues to look out for
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