Mar 21, 2019
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"Values, Virtues, Vice, and Dating" is part of a full-day
seminar I gave at the Le Meridien Bangkok on 8 December 2018. In
this keynote talk to a group of private coaching clients, I reveal
how morality is the missing piece in the puzzle of dating, mating,
love, happiness, and life overall.
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I also propose a virtue ethical approach to life and values,
informed by a deeper understanding of moral philosophy from both
eastern and western traditions. And I argue that we evolved a moral
sense as an adaptive mechanism for forming smarter, more efficient,
more trustworthy alliances. The moral sense is also adaptive
because it allows us to raise happier families, resulting in
healthier and happier offspring.
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Show notes and transcription will be here:
https://www.davidtianphd.com/happiness/values-virtues-vice-dating/
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Values, Virtues, Vice, and Dating: Ethics as the Missing Link to
Love, Happiness, & the Good Life Show Notes
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1:01 Why having your own set of values is important
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6:26 This is what’s wrong with the MGTOW, Red Pills, and
Incels
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10:53 Characteristics of a narcissist
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16:50 This is why many millennials are screwed
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21:31 What does emotional freedom feels like?
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26:53 The human being’s evolutionary advantage
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34:11 The sin that overshadows all other deadly sins
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44:03 What psychopaths are like when in relationships
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50:00 The four cardinal virtues and why they matter
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56:22 An introduction to the Confucian virtues
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1:00:59 The crucial difference between knowledge and
practice
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1:05:18 How one can become evil without even realizing it
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1:11:32 How artifice and the artificial can be good
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1:16:25 This is how you become a better person
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1:19:50 Understanding moral connoisseurship
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1:25:11 How you develop connoisseurship
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1:29:48 Why should you be good?
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1:36:01 Why being virtuous is also good from an evolutionary
perspective
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1:39:45 What makes your life meaningful
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For transcriptions and more free resources, go here:
https://www.davidtianphd.com/happiness/values-virtues-vice-dating/
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