Jun 11, 2018
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David Tian Ph.D.: The rationale or the reason and — or the
context for this talk is out of my own life, as is all of my
lessons come out of my own life. So, you might have also
experienced these challenges, where you have chemistry with
somebody, you fall in love, or you get along well enough that you’d
want to see them again, and then again, and again, and again, and
soon enough you’re seeing them on a regular basis.
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And you’re doing couple things and then that turns into one
year, two year, three year thing. And it wasn’t really even a
conscious decision for many guys as it wasn’t for me to get into a
relationship. You’re just having fun, casually dating, and then
next thing you know, you like certain girls in particular, or guys
if you are a girl, and you start to hone in on one or two
individuals.
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And if you’re mature, or if you’re like a cool adult in the
modern world, you never really have that talk of like, “Are we
girlfriend, boyfriend now?” That’s often the weaker party begging
for reassurance at that point. So you’re probably the dominant one
like, “Yeah, no problem. Yeah, let’s just hang out.”
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